Episode #049: Feeling Lonely Is Not A Permanent Condition Even Though It Feels That Way with Kingsley Grant

✅ UPDATE: 

8. • If you’ve listened to the last couple of episodes, you may have noticed a subtle shift in the focus of the show. 
     • If you’ve seen the image that accompanies the show, you may have seen the addition of the words “for Legacy Building Dads” written towards the top.
     • It’s intentional for clarity … who the show is for even though others can benefit from it.
     • I believe so many dads including myself, have spent most of our lives building a life, now it’s time to build a legacy.
     • That is what this show is focusing on … helping dads to do just that.
     • The primary way I believe to do so is to take your skills and experiences and find a way to monetize it so that you can be in a position to build your legacy.
     • Having freedom and flexibility is a requirement to effectively build your legacy.
     • I’ll be sharing with you the legacy I’m working on in future episodes
     • But I would like you to join me in a movement to inspire one million dads to focus on legacy building. 
     • Join me in the Facebook group – Legacy Building Dads

➡️ Today’s show is focusing on one of the common feelings many dads have as they seek to work through the burdensome desire of becoming a better dad and to eventually control their financial destiny. 

➡️ It’s lonely at the top 

• The higher up you go, the more you could feel lonely because
  • “no one understands”
  • “not many to share your struggles with”
  • “your circle has shrunk”
  • “you’ve become more protective”
• The other “truth”
  • you are scared
  • you are possibly feeling paranoid
  • you keep things inside

➡️ It’s only a feeling and not a reality

• It’s inside your head
• Feelings come and go; they change
• it’s permanent if you make it so

➡️ It’s possible to change it. Here’s how:

• Open up to others
  • Mastermind group
  • Facebook group
  • Hire a coach
• Remind yourself of your why
  • why are you pursuing your dream?
  • why did you start in this direction?
• Take action
  • decide on what the next step from where looks like
  • break down the step into small tasks
  • take the first one of the many tasks you’ve outlined

 ✅ Your Turn